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sábado, agosto 08, 2009

Amor e desejo

No amor, queremos dar. No desejo, possuir.
Ambos os sentimentos pedem a fusão com o outro para serem satisfeitos, apaziguados.
Embora no primeiro a fusão queira proteger e no segundo absorver (destruir), em ambos, apenas a posse diminue a ansiedade e o medo da perda.
Mas a posse é aniquiladora dos sentimentos.
Terrível paradoxo.

38 comentários:

Carla P.S. disse...

"Saber amar/é saber deixar alguém te amar" (paralamas).
E deve tá ai o mistério, saber deixar com que a posse ocorra, sem parecer uma aniquilação. A libido é sensível...

Um café, desse ser gripado que vos fala!

Unknown disse...

que lindo, meu querido amigo.

bjosss...

Luna Sanchez disse...

E quando não há sentimento de posse, é por que o desejo ou o amor não são legítimos?

Desse jeito vou entrar em crise existencial...

ℓυηα

SAM disse...

Bonito o texto....É certo a fusão para serem apaziguados. Embora no amor há nuances várias, sublimares até. Em ambos, a posse diminue a ansiedade, mas não creio que o medo da perda. Talvez a intensifique pela insegurança de quem deseja e/ou ama. " A posse é aniquiladora dos sentimentos".


Obrigada pela visita, Flavio! Adorei.


Beijos e ótimo dim de semana.

Amélia disse...

A posse é ilusao,
o desejo a comprovacao
e o amor é a flexibilizacao...

Beijos!!!

Batom e poesias disse...

"Amor é latifúndio"...

bjs
Rossana

Eduarda disse...

Amor carnal não existe sem desejo. Acho até que esse ultimo é um complemento muito importante. Sem ele seria impossível conviver e alimentar esse amor. Posse já é outra coisa, podemos ter esse tipo de sentimento negativo tb por um amigo. Mas é pura insegurança. Coisa de quem não sabe amar.

Adorei seu comentário no meu blog.

Beijossssss

Anônimo disse...

Ai Flavio...vc é uma figura...deve ser o maximo cantando no karaoke fabio jr!! Quanto ao amor feito dessa fusao, acredito que é o que da uma boa apimentada na relação. Mas com cuidado nas porções. bj Lu Maia

e daí? disse...

"Mas a posse é aniquiladora dos sentimentos"...
pois é, posse é ilusão, o ponto (dificil de achar, rs) é deixar livre pra fluir bem...

nina pimenta disse...

posse aparece, não quando a gente ama de mais.
posse aparece, quando a gente SE ama de menos.

CHRISTINA MONTENEGRO disse...

Para mal amador, é paradoxo; para os bons, é milk-shake plausível...rsrsrsrs

Solange Maia disse...

Fabio Jr... ops... Flavio (rs),

Gostoso é viver o amor misturado ao desejo, e, se for prá possuir, que seja a posse só dos momentos dessa tal (e deliciosa) fusão....

beijo

Ava disse...

É Sr. Flávio...

A receita da felicidade está em saber dosar sentimentos tão paradoxais...

Dosagem errada e desanda a receita...


Mas o que importa é o sabor final...

Nada de possuir... apenas sorver em pequenos goles...

Sacia melhor a sede...rs


Beijos

Walmir Lima disse...

Amo o desejo de possuir com amor.
(Ou será, "Possuo o desejo de amar?")

Walmir Lima disse...

Confundiu?
(vixi, tô confuso!)

Walmir Lima disse...
Este comentário foi removido pelo autor.
Anne M. Moor disse...

Tem homenagem pra ti lá no Prozac...

Ava disse...

Ao papai Flávio, que tenha uma dia especial...

Rodeado por seus rebentos...


Meu carinho e admiração...

Parabéns!

Carla P.S. disse...

Sei o quão legal tu foi, e é, para os teus filhos. Sei do orgulho inflado que tens ao falar deles, do trabalho deles, da arte deles. Pudera, és pai. Sangue do teu, conhece as criaturas desde que saíram do útero materno.
Sei dos pequenos sacrifícios que deves ter realizado - hoje já em forma integral de amor - com pequenas coisas que devem dispender tamanha paciência de ti (sabendo da tua ansiedade de querer sempre estar a 200 km/h, imagino o quanto teve que ser paciencioso pra fazer, por exemplo, aquela letra de música que postou nos últimos dias).
Por isso te desejo um feliz dia, pois imagino que sejas uma ótima espécime de paizão. Do tipo babão pelas crias, e alto-astral, como tem que ser.
Sem querer te comparar ao estilo paternalista, por favor (e me perdoe a cafonice).
Beijos, e um café pra 3, tu sabe o que fazer. =)

Érica Martinez disse...

Não será possível desejar alguém sem querer possuir? Então porque vc não deseja possuir a pessoa quer dizer que vc a ama? hum hum...

Em "tempos terapêuticos", tendo a dizer que é inútil pensar que existe alguma maneira de possuir/controlar (que na minha concepção estão intimamente ligados) alguém. E acho que o ciúme é o que aniquila a relação, que está intimamente ligado à posse...

Ih, looping!

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